My dad, Richard Wilber, is my hero. He was a proud father, teacher, preacher, politician, and runner. Prior to his death in 2009, he would often be seen walking or running all over the town of Salem. He was proud of his military service, and also loved being physically active. In the 1990s he walked/ran the distance from Salem to Rolla, completing the Heroes Marathon on his own before it even existed. He would have loved this race and everything it represents.
When I read about the inaugural Honoring our Heroes Marathon in 2016 I had never run a full marathon before, only half marathons and shorter distances. However, when I saw that the course was from my hometown of Salem to Rolla, there was no question in my mind that I had to complete the full distance and follow in my dad’s footsteps. I trained hard in preparation and had a few health issues along the way, which made training difficult, but I didn’t let that stop me from completing my goal.
I knew this course well, having driven from Salem to Rolla thousands of times since my childhood, but running it is another thing altogether! This course is no joke and not easy for a first-timer. Preparation is key in order to conquer those hills; with over 1,200 feet in elevation change this course is a challenge for even experienced marathoners. The morning of my first marathon the weather was crisp and cool with clear skies, perfect for running. My mother, Marjorie Pyatt, ran one of the aid stations and offered much-needed encouragement on my journey. My sisters and friends sent me funny and encouraging texts to keep me motivated along the way.
After fighting off leg cramps around mile 22 I was relieved to turn off of Hwy. 72 into Rolla, knowing the end was near. Running into the park, hearing the cheers of encouragement, and seeing the hero’s mile brought my dad to my mind. I teared up, knowing he would be proud as I crossed the finish line in just under 5 hours with my family there to celebrate. It could not have been a more perfect experience.
Since finishing my first Heroes Marathon in 2016 I have completed 7 more marathons, including the other 3 Heroes in 2017, 2018, and 2019. Even with years of experience, I still find this course a challenge each time the but I excitedly anticipate it every year. I look forward to honoring the memory of my dad, knowing how proud he would be, and celebrating with my family at the finish line. I also look forward to post-race pancakes!
Charity Kemp is 38 years old and lives in Conway, Arkansas with her husband David and dogs Cooper and Chewy.
The HEROES Marathon on Nov. 21, 2020 also offers a 5K, 10K, Relay and Half Marathons and all proceeds from the event are donated to local veteran's causes. For information or to register, visit www.heroesmarathon.com.
COVID precautions will be in place; there is no race day registration.
