One of the most common reasons non-Christians give for not coming to church is that "they are all a bunch of hypocrites." When you think about it, it may be true. That depends upon what is preached. So, instead of simply discounting that as just another excuse for not coming to church, it might be better for Christians to listen to it—and non-Christians, too.

That assessment may be true depending upon what is preached. If we preach "forgive and forget" but are seen holding a grudge, aren't we hypocrites? If we preach that we should speak kindly about others but are heard gossiping and spreading rumors, aren't we hypocrites?